Falling in love is an amazing experience: all the colors look bright, the life seems so easy and perfect, and you see you partner as the most wonderful person on earth. Seeing your relationship through rose colored lenses make you forget your boundaries. Who cares about boundaries when all that you want is being with your partner and be united with him/her. Nonetheless, when the crush is gone and the love veil is lifted from your eyes, you begin to notice that your lover after all is an imperfect human being. This is the beginning of the love at second sight.
The love at second sight happens when after discovering all the things you dislike about your partner, you love him/ her as he/she is. Take a look again. Does he/she snore at night? Doesn't he/she understand you sometimes? Doesn't he/she like all the hobbies that you have? Doesn't he/ she care about certain things that matter? Isn't him/ her so attractive as when you met? Doesn't he/she want to be with you all the time? Probably you don't want to be with him/her all the time either. It is not that things have change greatly, what happened is that you were not able to perceive this reality because of your infatuation.
If after all the differences and dislikes that you are able to identified now, both of you accept your imperfect relationships and find that the things that you like of each other outnumber the ones that you don't like. you are in love at second sight.
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