In the past ten years, we have witnessed how to get a steady job is becoming more challenging each day. Moreover, it is more difficult to get one that goes from 9 to 5 or from Monday to Friday. With all the connectivity and the increase of productivity, we are working more hours than ever and we are unable to keep our personal/ family life separated from our work life. But, are we truly seeing how this impact our relationships? Or have we noticing how this long working journeys are drifting you apart from your partner?
We believe that love endures all, and that our partner will be understanding and patient with our work dynamics. But the truth is that we are all human beings with needs and our relationships is like a plant that need to be watered periodically. You might not be aware, but your relationship could be under stress because one ingredient is missing: quality time with your partner. When you finally notice it, the signs will be evident and the conflict will have escalated. Your relationship might be in jeopardy and you have to take measures is you don't want to face a worse scenario.
The problem is that we are unable to control the most precious asset that we have: time. It is not easy to balance your personal, family and work life nowadays. You have to set your priorities, and allocate your time in accordance. Nonetheless, you have to remember two things: first, love is not implacable and you need to take care of it; and second, if it is hard to find a good job, but it is certainly harder to find a good mate. Take a look around you, and ask yourself: how would I feel if tomorrow my job was gone and how would I feel if my mate was gone? Then compare, and take actions.
If time is a great concern in your relationship, how are you dealing with it?
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